They key for my success in life, generally speaking, lies in the process of doing things. This will sound complicated but if you think long and deep you’ll catch my drift. When I was a kid , there’s one forbidden phrase in my house “ I can’t do it” You have no idea how many slaps I got in my face because of that. Eventually I bite my tongue. I have to literally bleed in order for my father to help me out with any situation. Yes, I bled a couple of times doing stuff that I really don’t fell comfortable talking about. I brought this mentality to my professional and personal life.
Was my daddy a bad guy? No way!! I can’t thank him enough to show me this way…
On this, I learned the following:
Results are irrelevant…really, trust me it works that way. Here’s some food for your brain.
People play the lottery with the idea to pick the winning numbers…sounds logical right?
They cross the fingers “hoping” to get it right this time…” I wish I get the winning numbers” They talk about “the numbers” like if they are already made. Like if someone already decided what the numbers will be…wrong!!!…that’s up in the air.
Some traders too focused on catching the wave in x direction, like if that was already decided….”the market is long/short etc…….see, I really don’t care on what direction the market ***should**move. My only concern is ONLY to be there when the opportunity knocks…that IS the process….which is more relevant than the results….
The process of doing things will mold the results sooner or later. I can’t explain this in simple words because this is one instance in what you must do the walkin, I really can do it for you. But as long as you get stuck in the middle trying to get results AKA winners, you will be crippling the process of doing, which is where you need to put ALL your effort.
When I trade, I win every time, even if the outcome is negative…why???. The gap between the two(process and results) will grow closer and closer to the point that you will come ahead every month and trading will be…what’s the word????? Boring…
I am not intending to impose my beliefs or preach religion etc. I do believe in frequency, vibration, light, the law of attraction and interaction within the universe.. I believe humanity complicate things too much. It is simple, there’s no other way to put it.
I will probably sound arrogant but here I go: When I started trading I knew I was going to be successful. I told my mentor that I was gonna be succesful. He rolled his eyes but after a couple of years he realized I was right. Here’s what I did:
I didn’t wish to be the best. That wouldn’t be right. You don’t have to beg, you just simply have to go thru the process. I knew that my process would not be an easy one, but I saw the whole picture: Process and results. But as I began trading, focusing on results faded away and I submerge entirely in the process.
Everytime you “wish” for something, you’re simply begging. Nobody is gonna give ya something for nothing. So the effect will be a whole bunch of people (who are actually doing the process) stepping on your toes…and probably on your head if you’re on the floor.
I mastered the process. I learned valuable lessons via the process. Then I became successful.
In this game, whoever is numero uno won’t stay at the top for long. Very soon, they crash and burn. The idea is to stay at the middle, enough to make a living and save some cash.
My daily routine
My guide are my hands. Every morning (no exceptions) I close my eyes for a while, and I touch my hands gently looking to feel the softness. I get in contact with myself before anything. I drink a full glass of water as soon as I wake up – no exceptions. I meditate . Simple stuff. I don’t pray , I just look within myself.
Whenever I sit in front of the screen, I make sure is me in 100% because I know the task at hand will put me in the risk of a total drainage.
I will not tell you that it woks like I just discovered gold or something. I know it works magically for me. But it’s important for you to be 100% when you do something. If not you’ll be screwed most likely.
Trading is one of the most difficult jobs in the whole world. Put a lot of stress in your heart. But if you choose to get this business going, you must know, in top of everything that losing is not bad. Is like breathing to life. Take another perspective and embraced. Once you conquer the cookie monster, trading just become a walk in the park
This is most likely my last post(s) in this forum. Everything come to pass and my postings are not an exception. I sincerely thanks everyone who contributed to the thread(s). I sincerely hope for you all the best and I am honored to help so many people in this site.
I will stick around for a couple of days. just in case someone have a question. Then I’ll move on.
Who knows I might comeback one day.
Good Karma.
Was my daddy a bad guy? No way!! I can’t thank him enough to show me this way…
On this, I learned the following:
Results are irrelevant…really, trust me it works that way. Here’s some food for your brain.
People play the lottery with the idea to pick the winning numbers…sounds logical right?
They cross the fingers “hoping” to get it right this time…” I wish I get the winning numbers” They talk about “the numbers” like if they are already made. Like if someone already decided what the numbers will be…wrong!!!…that’s up in the air.
Some traders too focused on catching the wave in x direction, like if that was already decided….”the market is long/short etc…….see, I really don’t care on what direction the market ***should**move. My only concern is ONLY to be there when the opportunity knocks…that IS the process….which is more relevant than the results….
The process of doing things will mold the results sooner or later. I can’t explain this in simple words because this is one instance in what you must do the walkin, I really can do it for you. But as long as you get stuck in the middle trying to get results AKA winners, you will be crippling the process of doing, which is where you need to put ALL your effort.
When I trade, I win every time, even if the outcome is negative…why???. The gap between the two(process and results) will grow closer and closer to the point that you will come ahead every month and trading will be…what’s the word????? Boring…
I am not intending to impose my beliefs or preach religion etc. I do believe in frequency, vibration, light, the law of attraction and interaction within the universe.. I believe humanity complicate things too much. It is simple, there’s no other way to put it.
I will probably sound arrogant but here I go: When I started trading I knew I was going to be successful. I told my mentor that I was gonna be succesful. He rolled his eyes but after a couple of years he realized I was right. Here’s what I did:
I didn’t wish to be the best. That wouldn’t be right. You don’t have to beg, you just simply have to go thru the process. I knew that my process would not be an easy one, but I saw the whole picture: Process and results. But as I began trading, focusing on results faded away and I submerge entirely in the process.
Everytime you “wish” for something, you’re simply begging. Nobody is gonna give ya something for nothing. So the effect will be a whole bunch of people (who are actually doing the process) stepping on your toes…and probably on your head if you’re on the floor.
I mastered the process. I learned valuable lessons via the process. Then I became successful.
In this game, whoever is numero uno won’t stay at the top for long. Very soon, they crash and burn. The idea is to stay at the middle, enough to make a living and save some cash.
My daily routine
My guide are my hands. Every morning (no exceptions) I close my eyes for a while, and I touch my hands gently looking to feel the softness. I get in contact with myself before anything. I drink a full glass of water as soon as I wake up – no exceptions. I meditate . Simple stuff. I don’t pray , I just look within myself.
Whenever I sit in front of the screen, I make sure is me in 100% because I know the task at hand will put me in the risk of a total drainage.
I will not tell you that it woks like I just discovered gold or something. I know it works magically for me. But it’s important for you to be 100% when you do something. If not you’ll be screwed most likely.
Trading is one of the most difficult jobs in the whole world. Put a lot of stress in your heart. But if you choose to get this business going, you must know, in top of everything that losing is not bad. Is like breathing to life. Take another perspective and embraced. Once you conquer the cookie monster, trading just become a walk in the park
This is most likely my last post(s) in this forum. Everything come to pass and my postings are not an exception. I sincerely thanks everyone who contributed to the thread(s). I sincerely hope for you all the best and I am honored to help so many people in this site.
I will stick around for a couple of days. just in case someone have a question. Then I’ll move on.
Who knows I might comeback one day.
Good Karma.
Peace
. It would be a great read!!!
