Prosperous mindset: relax & rise over emotions, own the game

Sharing what changed for me. I am getting clarity, clear on what's the next step and what really matters. And enough confidence in this next step. Might sound weird..but this clarity thing is just amazing. Never had anything like that I would say. So..this stuff is really revolutionizing my life! I am surprised! Just wooow. Enough clarity & confidence in myself and my decisions..that's big for me.

Basically for eons I wanted to be the real deal..and all I did was basically to prove it to others..and to me..and I started to realize I already am it and am reaping them rewards now. Awsome!

And I am feeling the mighty-ness/powerful-ness of it. If feels great..It feels great being Myself.. And seems to me that was what the quick gains & big position size did.. Made me feel really awsome. But the downside was..when I was wrong!

And as I own who I am now and feel great already, or can remind myself of this "feel great" energy.. I don't need to risk that much and I am more relaxed letting the market show me what it is up to & letting the trade evolve and not be freaking around every price movement. And that's an awsome achievement!

Great job Me!

Wondering whether I shouldn't be more brief. Maybe I write to much? Let me know what you prefer.

Do know you are the Real Deal. You rock. I believe in You. You have what it takes. Each and everyone of You. You
do..and I know You know it too and nothing in the world can deny it, take it away or destroy it or anyhow break it.
It might seem that way but that's only an illusion..and You know it deep down. You know that you Know. And if You
still buy into "not knowing" enjoy it..it's ending anyway. The Truth of Who You trully are, the Truth of things
can't be hidden, can't be denied or twisted.

Might need just a little bit of rememberance & acknowledgement of this truth of Who you are and What you know. And then some more. And then some more. The more you do it, the easier it gets.

Feel into EASY and EASIER..LIGHT and LIGHTER..SIMPLE & MORE SIMPLE..play with that..be with that for a while..did
it just began to lighten up? Or do you still choose to play in "Heavy, hard, difficult"? Is that really something
that's worth choosing? Doesn't seem like much fun to me. Which one you choose? Which one is more fun? Which one
feels better? That's the way to go. You are the Chooser. It's totaly up to you. You create your own Future, your
Destiny, your Fate through what you choose, where you put your energy.

Do you Choose life & things to be EASY or Difficult/Hard? Better or Worse? That's all it comes down to.
"That's too easy! That's not possible! If it would be that easy & simple everyone would be doing it?"

Well, what if everyone thinks the same thus waiting for another to test it out?

Ultimately you can trust only your experience..cause then you know for yourself. No matter what I write, no matter
what I describe..you won't believe me unless you experience it for yourself. So..will you choose it? Will you play
with it? Will you give it a fair try? That's up to You.

My take is that at some point Yo find out it's something to explore for you'll be hungry for more..hungry for something the "outside" life won't/can't give it to you..or it does but it just doesn't last. Like say enjoying great vacations, feeling on top of the world..and then your vibes crashes as you head home worrying about whatever or wake up to the "normal/busy day/business as usual".. it doesn't have to be this way..and You know it deep down.. Do you remember?

Let me remind you..You rock. Feel it, feel into it. Know it. Own it. Experience it. Be it. Shine it around. Breath
that into who you are, into every molecule of yours.. Breath that into Your world, your Life, everywhere.

Enjoy it..it's You..enjoy Your Greatness.. Enjoy the Magic You are..

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Only you can answer that. The whole you. The whole me enjoys it.

That's a tricky one & good one also!
I am aware of the fact I do communicate to me first, so yes, I do have that answer. And it's been revealed over time. Like liberating the statue from the stone with hammer..

The reason I ask for the input of fellow traders is that I want to invite others to share their views, finding out your preferences & what you'd like. What I write about is powerful & usefull stuff and my intention is that other's choose to play with that..and for that to happen, one has to see the benefit of it & understand it & orient in it.

Simply said, find it easy enough to apply it straight away. Practical, easy to use. So, that's why I ask for other's preferences. I invite each and everyone to participate & play together. Having ones priorities & desires listed and up to date is of great help..having clarity just rocks! And I thought for a long time I know what I want..well, there was a twist to that I found out!

Let's create some amazing stuff & an amazing change in our lives! Shall we? I am in. Anybody else? Who wants to join me? I don't care whether you are after miracles or just something tiny to shift.

Are you willing to create something different/better in your trading/life?

If you are, you are welcome & invited. The change you are after, the life you want/desire..starts with You. And it can start Now. Or later when you'll be ready. That's up to You.

i have subscribed. A very good thread BTW...

its my opinion about psychology in trading. I think the key to success in trading is on what I called "greedy meter and fear meter". how we assess and measure both
of them on our self. but I do not know how to measure it and make it quantitative.

Harmony or Balance of both & all I'd call it. Right?

yesz, and this forex in my opinion is some kind exercise for ourself. its great exercise and great tools to learn ourself, learn our inner, learn our lust passion etc.

I wrote before that it all comes down to some sort of Faith. Faith that You CAN do it & You WILL make it. Otherwise what's the point of trying something you don't believe you have any chance at? This Trust, Faith, Believes or Confindence, the name doesn't matter much, it's not the consciouss thinking..what matters is the underlying energy/space.

Did you experienced somebody saying "I'll make it" and you just knew he won't, cause his energy didn't supported what he was after? Maybe you couldn't even describe why you had that impression, you just knew he ain't the real deal as much as he thinks.

So, we all are here for we KNOW we CAN. But I myself realize more and more that the "I CAN'T" story is still strongly present in my space. It ain't true, it just might seems to be validated up to this moment through my experiences etc..but ignoring it, overlooking it won't make it go silent, won't make it go away..won't make it dissapear. And so it will keep on creating troubles & obstacles making my progress forward harder & more difficult. So..honestly I thought I already dealt with that "I can't" story before..well. Obviously there seems to be more! Kind of like next level, next step you can't avoid no matter how hard you try..it will always be there untill one decides..ok, I thought I'll face ya later, when I'll be more rested, more relaxed, when I'll be stronger, maybe even with a help of someone else..but you "I can't" & other stories..are still jumping in my way & messing the progress up..so I'll face you right here and choose to face you as much as you need to be experienced.

Kind of uncomfortable I admit, but pushing you in front of me into future didn't work in the past, so let's face you, let's be with you and let's have it done for good. And let's see what shifts with this new approach of mine.

So, intead of "No, no, go away, gimme a break, I'll deal with ya later..CAN'T do that now"..lol, even there is the I CAN'T fractal!
I choose to Invite you up, Welcome you up, Willing to be with you, willing to experience you..basically Yes, Yes, Yes..come up & share with me all you have there for me..Tell me all your story. It's ok, I am here for you. The rest can wait for now, I was pushing you away for along time and feel it's time to actually embrace you, be with you and appreaciate you and thus setting you free. Might take more then just one time, might need more steps..but I'm willing to go through all that's there. Take all the steps that are neccesery to come out on the other side as Winner, knowing & owning I CAN..more then before.

You ain't the problem, you are just a story and nor are you bigger then me. I just thought you were. Oh, well.. I am glad I was wrong! Yeah..
Great job Me!

Btw regarding targets/goal settings:

Targets are great as that sets a direction, I just was rather confused around the very next little steps as I have set huge targets and didn't know how to make that possible from where I am/I was.

The way I see it now, is that setting even little/tiny targets is beneficial as one learns & experiences "Yes, I CAN". And as one CAN, maybe one CAN even this? And maybe even that. And so the I CAN grows..and that has a positive effect on ones Confidence, Faith, Trust in ones ability to make it, no matter what happens. It's not that one will be sure he makes it, after all it's for the first time so who knows? But, in the past..I did this and I did that..and then I did something I didn't believe I could..so let's see what's possible now!

Thomas Edison: Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time."



Read a story about a guy who was looking for gold, digging a hole. Took him a long time, cost him bunch of energy & money..until he gave up and sold his mine.
It was exactly like in the picture..he stopped just shy of the bonanza. The very first day the new owner started digging he reached it..

What's at stake for us traders when we are trading? Taking entry, managing trade, taking profits, taking loss.. What's the big deal around all that? Was it a big deal when we started? Not in my case and not it the case of bunch of others who claimed they too had this "beginners luck". After all as a beginner you seemingly have no clue..so you kind of expect you can be/will be wrong.. So there's nothing to prove..and interestingly" that makes you be at peace and receptive..and you let the market talk to you and you'll take a great trade/profitable trade.

What else might be at stake?

We are trading money..so what is our relationship with money?

What does having bunch of money mean to us?
What does having no money mean to us?
What does loosing it all mean to us?
Are we safe & do we feel safe having bunch of money?
Is it good & do we feel good having bunch of money? (that "fairness/equality" thing)
Are we safe & do we feel safe losing it all/having no money?

And being profitable traders we are the minority..so that means standing out.."above" the losing majority. So..
What does standing out mean to us?
Are we safe & do we feel safe standing out?
Is it good/right to stand out?

What else might be at stake?

As long as there's emotional stuff on these our ability to trade as profitably as possible will be compromised.
When we let the stuff go, the game changes into ease, grace, playfulness, no big deal. Letting the winners run and cutting the losses short, if having any losses at all..

Welcome to trading with ease & grace having easy & graceful profits.. After all, life is ment to be lived & thrived not just strived & survived, there's not much enjoyment as it could be!

Btw what does profits feels to you?
Can profits be easy in your world?
Can profits be graceful in your world?
Does it actually feel that way or do you just think it?

It wasn't the case in my world until I became aware of it & shifted it. Ups.. Oh well! )

Thanks!

I need to read this very carefully. On the last days I have becoming the Hulk everytime the trade doesn't go where I expected

Cheers,