Indeed Eyes,
However you were not wrong to ask a question. Everyone can ask questions. Anytime.
We are not all Eflaco's, Shinny's, Hendo's, TraderM's, Onezed's, Retrogue's, Adaptation's, etc, or the one's whom have understood without ever posting.
So in this respect, always remember post 2783 & 2787. The little people like me, need that kind of advice. Little people are not forgotten in this thread.
Being Shy. Not wanting to upset apple carts, avoiding getting attention because I really really hate attention shone onto me. All of these things I needed to get over, rise above it, feelings of being unworthy, as uncomfortable as it was at the emotional level - in order to be successful in this business & to become what I am required to become, I was going to have to post. & took the plunge into the uncomfortable unknown.
Other people will have their own difficulties, eg: being told to study, being told they are wrong. Being told "no" seems to upset such a large number I potential traders. I never knew that "no" was a problem for others to have to learn to accept. Whatever our difficulties are, they can be overcome.
I can guarantee you... if I had not held onto the truth of 2783 I would have given up on myself Paradox wise. I was particularly grateful for that post being put out there for us all. It meant I could ignore feeling like an idiot and just do the best I could. I did feel like an idiot by the way, however, 2783 meant I had reassurance by a teacher to ignore that feeling. That feeling is false & a component of fear, which will, if allowed, disable people from becoming what they can actually become. So take the plunge. The water is damn freezing, yet we survive.
There are snippets of some pretty major bits wisdom in word and also in action all throughout this thread. Take it for granted or use it for your advantage. The choice is yours. The results of your choice are your own to contend with though.
The three things I used to look at in the beginning of the day was:
1) what Dana said to everyone in the quote and my response to his statement sometimes even the video - on post 9815 & also for 9806
2) The Bird and the Frog artwork I have shared before.
3) Some humour - on post 1905. What Kubiasty see, what a laugh - we need to remember not to take ourselves so seriously when we undertake this journey. His artwork, printed in full colour; is right in front of me on my trading station wall....which is plastered with posts and rules. Like for example, the 1st paragraph of post 19.
Those 3 things used to be every day, and are buried deep within now. Second nature.
When I finally comprehended some of what I have read and reread etc and then the light bulb finally comes on as Dana says will happen eventually in post 2783, 10625, 10939, & elsewhere; & which has also been demonstrated by those that have successfully crawled then walked and then moved on in their Paradox trading career. The shift from feeling like a failure .... to a melodramatic feeling of "It's about time trader, what took you so long" or "I can not believe it is so easy"..."Why was I blind for so long"... A time may also arrive whereby you may have an experience similar to being able to ride a bicycle without trainer wheels or someone holding on from the rear, helping you balance? Does anyone remember that day or a similar moment in your life? What an exhilerating day, yes?
The words from Dana "Bury" and "Light Bulb" have been fundamental to my slow progress of moving forward. Achieved through hard study and asking heaps and heaps of questions. Many things staring me/us in the face for so long. ALL Spoonfed. Sometimes in 3, 4 or more ways scattered all through the thread hidden in plain sight.
I look forward to seeing some plans posted.
However you were not wrong to ask a question. Everyone can ask questions. Anytime.
We are not all Eflaco's, Shinny's, Hendo's, TraderM's, Onezed's, Retrogue's, Adaptation's, etc, or the one's whom have understood without ever posting.
So in this respect, always remember post 2783 & 2787. The little people like me, need that kind of advice. Little people are not forgotten in this thread.
Being Shy. Not wanting to upset apple carts, avoiding getting attention because I really really hate attention shone onto me. All of these things I needed to get over, rise above it, feelings of being unworthy, as uncomfortable as it was at the emotional level - in order to be successful in this business & to become what I am required to become, I was going to have to post. & took the plunge into the uncomfortable unknown.
Other people will have their own difficulties, eg: being told to study, being told they are wrong. Being told "no" seems to upset such a large number I potential traders. I never knew that "no" was a problem for others to have to learn to accept. Whatever our difficulties are, they can be overcome.
I can guarantee you... if I had not held onto the truth of 2783 I would have given up on myself Paradox wise. I was particularly grateful for that post being put out there for us all. It meant I could ignore feeling like an idiot and just do the best I could. I did feel like an idiot by the way, however, 2783 meant I had reassurance by a teacher to ignore that feeling. That feeling is false & a component of fear, which will, if allowed, disable people from becoming what they can actually become. So take the plunge. The water is damn freezing, yet we survive.
There are snippets of some pretty major bits wisdom in word and also in action all throughout this thread. Take it for granted or use it for your advantage. The choice is yours. The results of your choice are your own to contend with though.
The three things I used to look at in the beginning of the day was:
1) what Dana said to everyone in the quote and my response to his statement sometimes even the video - on post 9815 & also for 9806
2) The Bird and the Frog artwork I have shared before.
3) Some humour - on post 1905. What Kubiasty see, what a laugh - we need to remember not to take ourselves so seriously when we undertake this journey. His artwork, printed in full colour; is right in front of me on my trading station wall....which is plastered with posts and rules. Like for example, the 1st paragraph of post 19.
Those 3 things used to be every day, and are buried deep within now. Second nature.
When I finally comprehended some of what I have read and reread etc and then the light bulb finally comes on as Dana says will happen eventually in post 2783, 10625, 10939, & elsewhere; & which has also been demonstrated by those that have successfully crawled then walked and then moved on in their Paradox trading career. The shift from feeling like a failure .... to a melodramatic feeling of "It's about time trader, what took you so long" or "I can not believe it is so easy"..."Why was I blind for so long"... A time may also arrive whereby you may have an experience similar to being able to ride a bicycle without trainer wheels or someone holding on from the rear, helping you balance? Does anyone remember that day or a similar moment in your life? What an exhilerating day, yes?
The words from Dana "Bury" and "Light Bulb" have been fundamental to my slow progress of moving forward. Achieved through hard study and asking heaps and heaps of questions. Many things staring me/us in the face for so long. ALL Spoonfed. Sometimes in 3, 4 or more ways scattered all through the thread hidden in plain sight.
I look forward to seeing some plans posted.
If you make up your own rules then the story is sad.....
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