Do you know that every single person lies about 5-10 times a day every single day except for infants who have not yet learn to talk?
So what make us lie everyday and are all lies bad and to be condemned?
I personally lied mostly to cover up my own hurt and also to hide my weaknesses and disappointment. My bad lies are those that hurt someone close to me by not telling them the complete truth. And often those lies hurt me even more than I anticipated and I feel totally miserable after that. So now I try my best to avoid those miserable lies by not saying anything at all cos I don't know of any better way to deal with my lying self.
I have discovered and read a disordinate numbers of lies and misguided info and advices being dished out in this forum and I often wondered and wish against wish to find out why they lie and unashamedly so.
I am quite sure that those habitual liars with dishonorable motives and agenda will not share and reveal to us/with us why they lie for obvious reasons but I would like to hear from those ordinary folks why they lie in this forum and wish that it should not be so by being totally open and honest about it.
GS
So what make us lie everyday and are all lies bad and to be condemned?
I personally lied mostly to cover up my own hurt and also to hide my weaknesses and disappointment. My bad lies are those that hurt someone close to me by not telling them the complete truth. And often those lies hurt me even more than I anticipated and I feel totally miserable after that. So now I try my best to avoid those miserable lies by not saying anything at all cos I don't know of any better way to deal with my lying self.
I have discovered and read a disordinate numbers of lies and misguided info and advices being dished out in this forum and I often wondered and wish against wish to find out why they lie and unashamedly so.
I am quite sure that those habitual liars with dishonorable motives and agenda will not share and reveal to us/with us why they lie for obvious reasons but I would like to hear from those ordinary folks why they lie in this forum and wish that it should not be so by being totally open and honest about it.
GS